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I have learned a lot from this forum, George, but when I join a forum it's usually because I think I have something to contribute. And yes, I tend to have a lot to say. If I am completely convinced of my understanding of a Bible passage, one that I spent as much time studying as I did the head-covering passage, I'm certainly not going to give it up because half a dozen people come on and give their pat answer that I'm wrong without even considering how I arrived at my conclusion.
I presented that particular argument here because I care about it and think it's important, and was quite willing to give it up when it became a point of contention. It was others who reopened the subject and I have answered them. PERHAPS I should just have let their answers stand although I think they are completely wrong? That's a possibility of course. That might be the wise thing to do, especially here where so many are against me, but as I've been thinking about this business of a woman's place that you've brought up I've also come to be more convinced that contributing to a forum is not usurping anybody's authority, is not putting oneself in the position of a teacher, no matter how strongly I am convinced of my own viewpoint, since anyone can ignore me and disagree with me -- and obviously do. You might consider whether the other female voices here are also "instructing" by their posts. |
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I may eventually give some time to your lengthy post here, George, BUT I didn't reopen this subject, others did, AND since I studied this passage in such depth -- including carefully considering EACH ONE OF THE VERSES from 1 Corinthians 11:2-16, so you aren't likely to surprise me with a new interpretation I haven't already considered -- I am VERY convinced of my viewpoint and I doubt very much that you will change my opinion. Apparently that's not OK with you that I maintain my viewpoint, and you don't want to hear anything more I have to say about it, but we CAN end the discussion, as I thought had already occurred. If others are going to reopen it I'm very likely to answer them. OR I may just quit this forum altogether since I've come to see that I don't see eye to eye with the majority on some important issues here and there's no point in constantly locking horns.
Last edited by Connie; 04-01-2008 at 02:35 AM. |
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You have completely ignored many of my points - You have as much right here as I do, the problem is that no one here is insisting that you give up your conviction. No one here is insisting that you stop your practice. I haven't once intimated that you do that.
Neither am I criticizing you for holding your conviction, and I am not criticizing you for you practicing it. I am criticizing you for calling people names (know-nothings) because they don't hold the same conviction. I am criticizing you for saying that if we don't practice what you practice and believe as you do that we are being led by the devil if we don't agree with you or practice what you do. If I believed that your strongly held belief on this issue were "heresy" I would have given you the required 1st. and 2nd. admonition and rejected you. But I don't believe that it is heresy. Titus 3:10 A man that is an heretick after the first and second admonition reject; I believe that you have the right to hold your conviction and that you definitely better practice it [James 4:17 Therefore to him that knoweth to do good, and doeth it not, to him it is sin.] I have admonished you about your reliance on "commentators" and "commentaries" (especially if they are all one-sided). God didn't command us to study the "commentators" He commanded us to study "the word" [2Timothy 2:15]. The thing that distinguished The Lord Jesus Christ and the Apostles from the religious leaders of their day was that The Lord and His Apostles spoke with authority! Our authority today is the Bible, not "commentators", pastors, Seminaries, Bible schools, or "Evangelical" and "Fundamentalist" big shots. I cautioned you about the fact that since you are a woman that perhaps you should walk circumspectly and be a little more respectful towards the men on this Forum. Those of us who live in the Western World today are heavily influenced by the subversive and perverse religion called "Humanism". Humanism Is the official (but undeclared) religion of the West. It holds sway over the families, the schools, the sciences, the media, the government, and sad to say, also most of the churches. If you have never read the Humanist Manifestos' (I, II, & III) I would highly recommend that you check them out. After reading almost all of your 81 posts, your "tentative" reasoning on almost all Bible subjects (except head covering); reveals a heavy reliance on Humanistic reasoning and thinking. Instead of being Biblically centered - you are man centered (Humanism = "man is the measure of all things"). Real genuine Bible study should not be just an academic exercise or a mere intellectual pursuit. Instead, true Bible study should be an honest and sincere search for THE TRUTH. “What saith the Scriptures?” - NOT "What saith the commentators". |
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What good would it do for me to quote the scripture alone and give my own personal understanding of it? The position here that the Bible is the authority is carried to a point of absurdity since all anybody can give is their own interpretation of the Bible, which ends up with them treating their own interpretation as if it were God's own word.
There wouldn't be a problem if all true Christians always understood it the same, but that is not the case. I consider it humble to consult many other points of view on the Bible passage instead of just flat-out declaring my understanding as if it were the Truth as so many here do. I'm no humanist, George, I am not man-centered at all, and I rely on the Holy Spirit, not my intellect, to lead me in my understanding of scripture. Nevertheless I'm sure I get it wrong at times. I suspect that some here who give their pat answers as if they were Bible truth may be relying on their fallible intellects more than I do. I'm sorry for losing my temper. I may not answer some of your posts because I disagree with you and am not sure how to disagree in a Christian spirit. |
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I have to admit I had a hard time following this thread. My wife and I have discussed this issue before. We settled it with:
1 Corinthians 11:16 But if any man seem to be contentious, we have no such custom, neither the churches of God. She has lovely medium long hair. We decided that would suffice. She is concerned about it turning gray, I'm concerned about mine turning loose. So, maybe a question was asked of Paul about women wearing some kind of "hat" or something and he was drawing the conclusion that we don't have such customs. I'm also wondering if Paul was trying to remove yet another thing for the Corinthian church to argue and bicker over. They were allowing incest but arguing over women wearing a "hat". People haven't changed. Technology has, scenery has, but people are still the same. Philippians 2:12 Wherefore, my beloved, as ye have always obeyed, not as in my presence only, but now much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling. |
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It's a hard passage to understand, as your own experience with it testifies, Pastor Mikie. Some parts of scripture are just hard for us today. That's why it became such a prodigious undertaking for me.
The reason I got so involved in it is that I felt the Lord brought it to my attention during a period of fasting and prayer at the beginning of last year. He brought some other things to my attention as well that I've also pursued. I had done a little studying of the head covering passage a few years earlier and decided that it did mean women are to cover our heads in worship and prayer but that it would be too disruptive to make an issue of it so I dropped it altogether, no doubt with a little help from my own preference not to have to put something over my head. But when it came up the second time during a period of seriously seeking the Lord, I concluded He didn't approve of my just dropping it. So at that point, without further study, I worked at finding something I could stand wearing on my head and made myself a sort of beret out of an old black sweatshirt that worked OK. I didn't want to feel conspicuous and I didn't want to make a big issue of it, and mostly people just thought I was wearing a "cute hat." Eventually I explained it to more and more people and it was not well received, but I didn't make an issue of it. But I started feeling that if the Lord was telling me this is what the passage means then I should make a bigger effort to persuade others, and that's when I got into studying it in earnest. It took me months before I felt I'd covered enough material to present it to the elders of my church. Well, I wasn't going to push it on anyone. Only one elder responded that he'd like to read it but unfortunately I left the church for other reasons and don't know if he had a response or what it was. I've found Christians online who do believe in the head covering and enjoyed their websites and forums. But it keeps nagging at me that if we're supposed to be covering our heads and the majority of churches are no longer doing that, it's not an issue to just let drop or confine to a small group who share the same conviction. So at a forum I'm likely to bring it up again as I did here. When there is as much opposition to it as there is here, however, I am content to let it drop, but when people respond with a kneejerk pat answer my Irish temper comes up. And I'm not even Irish. The way I read it, Paul had advocated women's covering their heads and some were objecting to that, possibly in the spirit of Christian freedom as some have suggested, so that when Paul acts to silence the contention at the end by declaring they have no such custom, he's declaring it a custom decided by apostolic authority. He has to mean that he won't hear any more arguments against the head covering, since he'd used a number of arguments in favor of it and if they won't accept those then they have to accept his authority. What seems to me to make this even more certain is that historically women did cover their heads in all the churches after that up until very recently. But it is a difficult passage and I appreciate your acknowledging that. Last edited by Connie; 04-01-2008 at 03:39 PM. |
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Connie,
I have 2 questions to ask you: 1. Have you ever read the Humanist Manifestos I, II, & III? 2. And if you have - can you tell me how many "Points" they (the religious Humanists) make in Humanist Manifesto I? If you haven't read them then you have no idea what they say or why I base my judgment on where you are coming from. Your last posts to myself and "Pastor Mikie" are illustrative of my point - and I quote from your posts (bold & underlines are mine) From your post to me: "give my own personal understanding of it?" {"my own personal understanding" = Humanistic thinking} "The position here that the Bible is the authority is carried to a point of absurdity" (your "opinion") since all anybody can give is their own interpretation of the Bible," (again-your "opinion") which ends up with them treating their own interpretation as if it were God's own word." (again, your "opinion" - you are your own authority! = Humanism) "I consider it humble to consult many other points of view on the Bible passage instead of just flat-out declaring my understanding as if it were the Truth as so many here do. (Again - this is not only your personal opinion, but you couldn't "prove" what you just said if your life depended on it, at least in my case since I have never once made such a declaration. You not only refuse to receive instruction - you are given to "exaggeration", "generalization" & "mis-representation".) {"I consider" = Humanistic reasoning} "I suspect that some here who give their pat answers (again - your opinion) as if they were Bible truth may be relying on their fallible intellects more than I do." {"I suspect" = Humanistic reasoning} "I'm sorry for losing my temper. I may not answer some of your posts because I disagree with you and am not sure how to disagree in a Christian spirit. (You apologized once before and now we are back to the same point again - I don't believe you for a minute. Brother Sammy and I have a "disagreement" about 1Corinthians 12: 8-12, yet we have remained both "civil" and "respectful" of each other in the spirit of true Christian "charity" without resorting to calling each other names and intimating that the other is being "led by the devil".) {"am not sure how to disagree in a Christian spirit." That's one of the many reasons why God gave us the Bible! So we can find out how to treat each other. Why aren't you sure? Unless the Bible is not your final authority and so you decide issues on how you "feel". = Humanistic thinking again} From your post to pastor Mikie: "The reason I got so involved in it is that I felt the Lord brought it to my attention during a period of fasting and prayer at the beginning of last year. {"I felt" = Humanistic reasoning. Christians are not to operate by "feelings"} "He brought some other things to my attention as well that I've also pursued." {"He brought"? How does God do this today - outside of the Scriptures?} "I had done a little studying of the head covering passage a few years earlier and decided that it did mean women are to cover our heads in worship and prayer but that it would be too disruptive to make an issue of it so I dropped it altogether, no doubt with a little help from my own preference not to have to put something over my head." {"and decided that it did mean" = Humanistic thinking. Christians are concerned with what God says - Not what He "means"} "But when it came up the second time during a period of seriously seeking the Lord, I concluded. . . ." {"I concluded" = Humanistic reasoning} "But I started feeling that if the Lord was telling me this is what the passage means then I should make a bigger effort to persuade others, {"I started feeling that if the Lord was telling me = Humanistic reasoning - there's those "feelings" again & God "telling" you something outside of Scripture} "It took me months before I felt I'd covered enough material to present it to the elders of my church. {"before I felt" = Humanistic reasoning - "feelings" again!} Well, I wasn't going to push it on anyone. Only one elder responded that he'd like to read it but unfortunately I left the church for other reasons and don't know if he had a response or what it was. {Since you came on this Forum this issue has been "pushed" on us several times, how do you expect us to believe that you didn't push it before? Hmmm?} "So at a forum I'm likely to bring it up again as I did here. When there is as much opposition to it as there is here, however, I am content to let it drop, but when people respond with a kneejerk pat answer" ("a kneejerk pat answer" = your opinion - we gave you our answer from the Holy Scriptures and you weren't able to receive it.) "my Irish temper comes up. And I'm not even Irish." {Humanism again - Humanists always get angry when they run into someone who doesn't agree with them! If you don't believe me just go to any college campus in the U.S. A. and try to talk to the average Humanistic professor about anything from the Bible.} "The way I read it, Paul had advocated women's covering their heads . . ." {"The way I read it," = Humanistic reasoning - purely speculation and supposition on your part} But why go on? Your last paragraph is peppered with words such as: "possibly"; "suggested"; "He has to mean"; "What seems to me" {Your entire presentation (all of your posts) has been full of Humanistic thinking and reasoning. Just because you can't "see" it, doesn't change the facts: You came here (and I suspect other Forums also) with an agenda; and when it wasn't received, instead of letting it go as you said you would, you persisted in trying to "push" your beliefs on others in the Forum. And since your belief has still not been accepted you have reverted to name calling and cheap shots at some members of the Forum } All of my life I have dealt with "Christians" like you, and I have found that the only way to deal with you is not to give "place by subjection, no, not for an hour"! Proverbs 15:32 He that refuseth instruction despiseth his own soul: but he that heareth reproof getteth understanding. |
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I'll try to answer your long post now.
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It isn't about anybody's conviction, however, it's about the casual, almost flippant way it is thrown at me, as if they had some inside track on the meaning of the passage they could just toss out without a second thought although it took me a lot of prayer and study to understand it. HOWEVER, again, I shouldn't react angrily. Very bad of me. Quote:
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No, I'm not assuming that. All I know is what is posted, and some have said only a line or two basically pronouncing themselves right and me wrong without a shred of an attempt to address any of the issues I raised about it. If anybody's studied it in any depth, it doesn't show in their way of answering me. It looks like the shallowest possible off-the-cuff thought. LOOKS like that, I could be wrong. Quote:
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I would think it would matter to a man of God what other men of God have had to say about a Biblical passage. You may still disagree with them, and I ended up disagreeing with most of them myself. But it seems to me to be quite significant that the interpretation of long hair appears to be a very recent thing, while two millennia of all the different churches understood it to be about a covering. Seems to me that a "private interpretation" is exactly what you all here are doing, simply taking your own reading is the standard and dismissing what so many others throughout history had to say about it. Even if some teachers are regarded as "heretics" on some point or other, even heretics are usually right about many things so it's plain irresponsible to say that if they are wrong about one thing then they MUST be wrong about this thing. Tertullian is considered by some to have heretical views about some things, but since he lived in the second century and knew firsthand of the practices in the churches in his day, it seems significant that he reported that they ALL required a headcovering for women, and the Corinthian church the most ample headcovering of them all. Quote:
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Well, I see you've written another post while I was writing my long answer to you. I'm sorry, George, but I'm simply trying to be honest about how I personally arrived at my thinking, while others here wrongly think that by quoting the Bible they aren't giving their own personal interpretation. What you are calling humanistic reasoning I'm calling honesty. The Bible is absolutely authoritative, human beings aren't.
That's all I have time for at the moment, but apparently you don't want more discussion anyway. |
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That was all it took to convict me of the need to wear a head covering though and got me started on the study I did at such length. I took that as a prompting from the Lord to obey what I believed. Do you disagree? After I told this friend that was the effect on me of our conversation she started growing her hair out as if in protest to my view of it, although she'd said she couldn't understand the passage. Since I know there are some in the congregation who believe it is about long hair, and a couple have mocked my view of it, I suppose she was influenced by them. |
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