[Here Am I]

All good answers. Here's another:

"Then Peter, turning about, seeth the disciple whom Jesus loved following; which also leaned on his breast at supper, and said, Lord, which is he that betrayeth thee?
Peter seeing him saith to Jesus, Lord, and what shall this man do?
Jesus saith unto him, If I will that he tarry till I come, what is that to thee? follow thou me." (John 21:20-22)

Instead of looking at what others are doing, and what men might teach us, we are to follow Him, and Him only.